Being a rubbish blogger!

Ooops! I really haven't kept up with this blog the way that I had intended, but sometimes, with work, kids, housework, life just generally gets in the way of things like writing.
Rather than write a big long breakdown of all the recent events I'm going to use this post to reflect upon my thoughts instead.
Sometimes it can be a little lonely, when besides your family, all the friends you're closest to live inside a tiny hand held gadget. Especially when having a good old gossip with them, pouring your heart out, or reflecting on life's issues together gets you in trouble with the family you love the most :-/
You see I use my iPhone A LOT and this can get me in trouble with my mum and my husband, but mostly I am texting a friend, using what's app, or sharing Facebook messages with friends, without these forms of communication my only friends are my my immediate family and life can then get lonely!
Don't get me wrong, I have friends I can message to arrange a catch up should I wish to, but I've had close friendships disintegrate over the past 18 months taking with them other even closer friendships and now my thoughts are centred on how wrong I could have been about people and my perception of the relationships we once shared.
So for now it's about finding a happy medium, the balance between keeping my close long distance friendships and also not annoying my family with my favoured form of communication (which ironically I am sat posting this from my iPhone whilst the hubby just tuts! Woops!)
I'd rather have long distance friendships with people I can completely trust and share everything with, than real-life friends who have me wondering if I can even trust them anymore and questioning what we had in common that made us friends in the first place!